Running a personal styling business is as much about mindset as it is about creativity and strategy. The journey of building a business often mirrors a spiritual journey, requiring self-discovery, resilience, and a willingness to embrace growth. Over the years, a select few books have profoundly shaped my mindset and approach to business, becoming my trusted guides. These books aren’t just about self-help—they’ve provided me with the tools to stay inspired, navigate challenges, and lead with purpose in my styling business.

​Here’s how these books have influenced my life and can empower you to thrive as a personal stylist.

In the world of personal styling, relationships are everything. Whether it’s the bond you create with clients, collaborators, or yourself, The Truth About Love teaches us to approach these relationships with authenticity and openness. Conor Creighton’s message is clear: love starts within, and it’s the foundation for everything else.

​As a personal stylist, this book reminds me to show up with genuine care for my clients. When you love what you do and approach your business with gratitude, it’s reflected in how you serve your clients. Creighton’s exercises can also help you foster self-love, allowing you to let go of perfectionism and embrace your unique style and gifts.

Louise Hay’s work is a masterclass in mindset shifts—something every personal stylist needs to succeed. Running a styling business can bring up fears of rejection, imposter syndrome, and the belief that you’re not good enough. You Can Heal Your Life offers tools to break free from these limiting beliefs.

For me, affirmations have been a game-changer. Hay’s simple yet powerful approach to reframing thoughts helps cultivate confidence and resilience. Imagine starting each day with affirmations like, “I attract clients who value my expertise” or “My styling business grows with ease and abundance.” These small but consistent practices can rewire your mindset for success.

If you're looking to explore a career as a personal stylist, I recommend a few resources to get stared. First sign up for my weekly newsletters here. Next, I recommend you get yourself over to facebook and join my community of personal stylists over there. I provide lots of training and free resources there too. Finally, I invite you to drop me an email at aileen@laneimageconsultants.com and let's start a conversation about the next best steps for you.

Building a business is often an emotional journey, and self-compassion is essential. Radical Acceptance has taught me that embracing where you are, without judgment, is the key to moving forward.

As a personal stylist, you may face self-doubt or compare yourself to others in the industry. Brach’s teachings help you release these fears by cultivating compassion for yourself and your unique journey. This mindset shift allows you to focus on serving your clients with authenticity and joy, rather than chasing external validation.

In Outwitting the Devil, Napoleon Hill tackles the fears and doubts that hold us back—a challenge every entrepreneur faces. Hill’s concept of “drifting” resonates deeply in the context of running a business. It’s easy to fall into the trap of avoiding decisions, hesitating on new offers, or second-guessing your pricing.

This book is a powerful reminder to take control of your mindset and make intentional choices. In your styling business, this could mean confidently pitching a high-ticket offer, creating bold marketing content, or setting clear boundaries with clients. By “outwitting the devil” of fear and indecision, you create a business that reflects your highest potential.