As a 1/3 Emotional Projector with an Aquarius Sun, Scorpio Moon, and Leo Rising, my life’s work has always been about transforming deep emotional truth into visible leadership, but it didn’t start that way.

In my early styling career, I was the quintessential Performer. I worked twice as hard as everyone else, collected certificates like talismans, and believed excellence guaranteed belonging. I was praised, yes, but often unpaid, unseen, or quietly dismissed.

When exhaustion finally hit, I swung into Ghost energy, disappearing from social media, avoiding launches, and convincing myself I needed “more clarity,” when really, I didn’t feel safe being visible anymore.

It took years of unlearning to realize: I wasn’t broken. I was still operating from a nervous system wired for survival, doing whatever it took to stay safe, not to shine.

That realization became the seed of The Venus Image Code™ Core Invisibility Wound Program, my framework for healing visibility from the inside out.

Each wound corresponds to one of the first four chakras,  the energetic centers connected to survival, belonging, power, and love.

When these energy centers are blocked, visibility feels unsafe, no matter how much mindset work you do.
Healing isn’t about “pushing through” fear; it’s about creating safety for your system to be seen.


That’s why inside The Venus Image Code™ Core Invisibility Wound Program, we don’t start with marketing strategy. We start with nervous-system repair, emotional clearing, and energetic alignment  because strategy will never trump survival. First we feel safe and then we can implement strategy effortlessly.

If you identify with any of these wounds, you’ve likely lived some version of this cycle:

This is what I call “praised but not paid.”

It’s not that you lack skill or heart, you’re simply giving from a wounded pattern.

Meanwhile, your true magnetism, the quiet, steady confidence that draws in aligned clients, stays trapped beneath old emotional agreements like “I mustn’t need too much” or “If I shine, I’ll be judged.”

The cost? Not just money, but energy, joy, and creative fulfillment.
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Healing the Invisibility Wound is not about “doing more.” It’s about un-performing.
It’s nervous-system work. Soul work. Energy work.

Here’s where healing begins:

These are entry points, gentle openings. The deeper rewiring happens through guided tapping, chakra-based rituals, and emotional release work inside The Venus Image Code™ Core Invisibility Wound Program.

When you begin to dissolve your Invisibility Wound, everything changes, not just your business metrics, but your entire relationship with being seen.

You:

Visibility becomes an act of devotion, not defense.

As one client shared after healing her Performer wound:

“Aileen incorporates such fantastic mindset empowerment techniques and tools into the program. I have fabulous daily habits that allow me to work through the fears and the self-doubts that I have about putting myself out there. I have tools that help me show up on a consistent basis.

I have tools that help me raise my energy and my vibe when I need it most. And most importantly, I have all of these tools that I can now share with my clients through my work with them as well. Aileen is a complete embodiment of everything that she teaches.

She is eagle-eyed when it comes to identifying the blockers that show up. I mean, she worked with me through some pretty emotional and sort of vulnerable trauma that I didn't even know I was carrying. But I am forever grateful that I came into her world and she came into mine.”

That’s the transformation, when visibility stops feeling like exposure and you feel safe to shine.

If you recognize yourself in these wounds, the over-giving Performer, the shape-shifting Chameleon, the hiding Ghost, or the longing-to-shine Wallflower, please know this:

You are not broken.
 You’re simply brilliant at surviving.

But you don’t have to keep performing, blending, or shrinking to feel safe.
 There’s another way — one where your presence is enough.

Inside The Venus Image Code™: Heal the Core Invisibility Wound, we go beyond awareness into reclamation. You’ll explore:

It’s the bridge between inner healing and outer expression, between applause and authentic recognition.
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Before you step into the full The Venus Image Code™: Heal the Core Invisibility Wound Program, I’ve created a gentler doorway - a 3-week Invisibility Wound Quiz Experience designed to help you begin feeling safe, seen, and supported in your visibility.

You’ll discover your core wound, receive guided practices, and start experiencing real breakthroughs in your confidence and energy - all at a pace your nervous system can hold. Think of it as a soft initiation into this deeper work… a way to meet yourself with compassion before you rise fully into your light.

And finally a beautiful testimonial from Reidin Rees, a stylist and empowerment coach, who has incorpoated this work into her business and coaching:
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